Life's too short...To Be Unhappy

Did you know that you can replace your pain or confusion with life-long peace and happiness by introducing just ONE MISSING INGREDIENT into your life?

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Are You in Emotional Pain or Searching For Answers Right Now?

Life can be a real rollercoaster of emotions and sometimes the lows can be pretty low, right?

  • We discover our partner has had an affair
  • We find ourselves facing bankruptcy
  • The conflict in our marriage becomes intolerable
  • We find one of our children is self-harming
  • We keep revisiting our own childhood abuse
  • Our alcohol consumption is becoming out of control
  • That boss at work is making our life a misery
  • The kid’s behaviour is driving us crazy
  • We don’t get the promotion we deserve or we lose our job
  • We find that success only seems to happen to other people

The list of possibilities leading to emotional frustration or meltdown for any of us is infinite and at times the pain inside can be absolutely unbearable, no matter what we use to try and distract ourselves.

It’s at times like this, that we begin to wonder how we can recover. We worry that we will NEVER find the consistent happiness we crave and then we fear that we really are destined to lurch from one crisis to the next.

The truth is that most of us spend our adult lives searching for a better feeling and eventually realise that it’s an endless hamster-wheel of chasing the next good thing and never finding the ONE thing that’s going to make us happy.

Which of the following forms of what we call ‘Imitation Love’, do you use to ‘make yourself feel better’?


Casual Sex
Casual Sex

Foreign Holidays
Foreign Holidays

A Nice Car
A Nice Car

A Great Body
A Great Body

A New House
A New House

Making Money
Making Money

Adrenaline Sports
Adrenaline Sports

The really great news is that all of this pain and endless searching for relief can be eliminated and replaced with a feeling of calm, inner peace and freedom, thanks to the findings of one man,  Dr. Greg Baer, who discovered something he called:

Real Love and the Real Love Journey.

Take a look at the Happiness Chart to see what’s missing …


The missing ingredient is Real Love (which is ‘unconditional’ NOT ‘romantic’ love by the way) and when we introduce it into our life, something magical occurs. Without Real Love in our life, we are destined to lurch between ‘more pain’ and ‘less pain’ and never have any idea that life can feel so much better.
Imagine being only partially sighted from birth and not realising that life can look better than it does, until one day someone gives you a pair of glasses and you can see the beauty of the world in absolute clarity for the first time. That’s how the Real Love Journey has been described by many.

Permit us another metaphor.

Imagine that you’ve lived in the interior of Antarctica your entire life, so all you’ve ever known is temperatures between – 20°C and – 60°C. One day however, the temperature rises from – 40°C to – 20°C. Compared to what you’ve known all your life, you’d think – 20°C was “warm.” Living in Antarctica, how would you possibly know what genuine warm was? How could you know what it could be like to bask on a beach in Grand Cayman, where the temperatures might vary between + 30 and + 40 °C in the afternoon?

Most people find themselves in a similar position emotionally. In the absence of sufficient Real Love, they haven’t the slightest idea what genuine happiness is. They live in a constant state of – 40°C emotionally, and when they can get enough Imitation Love (in the form of praise, sex, money, power, shopping, alcohol and so on) that feels so good that they honestly believe they’re happy, even though they’ve only moved from a condition of – 40°C emotionally to perhaps – 20°C.

Once we have tasted Real Love sufficiently, however (both in quantity and consistency) we can’t be fooled by what we once thought happiness was. Once we have tasted the real thing, all the ‘Imitation’ Love loses its appeal and therefore its ability to seduce us. Most of us have settled for rubbish (Imitation Love) all our lives. Once we’ve tasted ‘chocolate cake’ (Real Love), we won’t be fooled by rubbish again.

Introducing the Founder of Real Love …. Dr Greg Baer

Real Love

A little over 20 years ago a highly regarded surgeon by the name of Dr Greg Baer was sat in his back yard in Georgia USA holding a gun to his head. For him, life had become too painful.

Despite a lovely family, a flourishing practice, more money than most of us will ever see and having achieved every goal he had ever set himself, Greg was addicted to narcotics and miserable both at work and at home. He couldn’t figure out why. In that moment he made a decision to get himself clean and figure out why he was so unhappy.

Greg has spent his entire life, from that point onwards, discovering what is missing from his emotional system and how to replace it. He now enjoys a life of unparalleled peace and happiness and has gone on to write 17 books, speak to countless audiences, appear on TV and radio and introduce thousands of people to the transformational power of Real Love. His simple principles have changed the lives of many thousands of people; people who were just like you, ‘normal’ people responding best you can, to the stresses and strains of everyday life.

As his organisation grew over the years, Dr Baer personally coached and mentored some people to be able to spread the benefits of his discovery far and wide. Today there are approximately 30 certified Real Love coaches worldwide, who have themselves reached the exacting standards of Dr Baer.

Introducing Founders of Real Love UK, Pete & Nikki

How Nikki and I Survived Infidelity
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“As founders of Real Love UK, Nikki & I individually experienced the incredible healing power of Real Love with Greg in the U.S. back in 2010 after going through our own emotional crisis after Nikki discovered my many affairs. What we discovered then and since, has absolutely transformed our marriage and indeed our whole lives, so we couldn’t help but bring it to you.

We are really happy to share our own journey with you- just ask!

Having been personally coached by Dr Baer himself, Nikki & I witnessed first-hand the incredible changes only Real Love can bring. We also realised how important it was for anyone truly committed to finding real happiness and releasing themselves from emotional pain, to be coached through this process.”

There is actually nothing like the Real Love Journey available through any other form of coaching, counselling or therapy in the world and it is the only thing that truly works!

So right now whether you are feeling cheated on, hurt, betrayed, frustrated, ashamed, afraid, angry, guilty, worthless, unappreciated, bewildered or you are still searching for that elusive ‘something’, then just know that you have found the solution in Real Love.

“I have certified a number of Real Love coaches over many years, but only rarely have I experienced the pleasure of working with coaches as compassionate and skilled as Pete and Nikki. Their honesty and ability to reach people who have suffered unhappiness in their lives and their relationships, is unmatched.” Greg Baer M.D.

Founders of Real Love UK

Here at Real Love UK, our coaches can help you move into that higher level of happiness (shown on the chart above) by showing you how to find, feel, remember and share Real Love  in your own life.

And it all starts with a phone call, an email or clicking the ‘Tell Me More’ button to get a free report which explains it all.

See What These People Have To Say About Their Real Love Journey

AD, Warwick, ,

“My husband’s infidelity rocked my world. I have never felt so alone, so unwanted or so unattractive in my life. I felt completely worthless and it was so painful that I didn’t see how I could recover. Well meaning family and friends kept telling me what a useless man I had married and that I deserved more, but it didn’t help. In fact it made things worse – until I met Pete and Nikki.

I wanted to find a reason to forgive my husband because I was so scared of what my future would hold on my own, but at the same time I wanted to hurt him as badly as he had hurt me.

Real love has given me a whole new perspective on life, my marriage and me. I have learned to feel worthwhile and loved and how to love my husband too. The changes have been truly amazing. (My husband) and I have created a bond which is truly unbreakable and I absolutely know that he will never be unfaithful to me again. Neither of us needs anything more than we now have. It probably sounds naïve to other sceptical people, but it is absolutely true. Words can’t convey this feeling. Our world is now understandable and it’s almost like we have a blueprint for our life. Thank you both from the bottom of my heart.”

AD, Warwick
Ben Leppier, ,

A need for ‘success’ was a constant drive for me, but regardless of how successful & popular I became amongst my peers or in front of large audiences, I never felt any happier. For as long as I could remember I was carrying a sense of fear, a sense of emptiness, a thirst for something that I just could not understand, couldn’t put my finger on & NOTHING I achieved or analysed or assessed and in fact I got myself to a place where I had literally given up and admitted that I did not have the answer, there must be another way to find what I was looking for.

When I finally found Real Love, I knew in my soul it was what I had been seeking for 30 years of my life. Dr Greg Baer’s work distils literally everything I have read and has combined his 20+ years of hands on experience of helping people find Unconditonal love. It has transformed my life. Real Love has been and continues to be a revolution in who I am, as I strip back the bullsh*t everyday layer by layer. Real Love has really transformed my relationship pre & post marriage & we didn’t really believe we had much to work on – that was a huge mistake! My wife finds peace in that everyday I am learning to love her better & the results are amazing.


Ben Leppier

Start Your Own Real Love Journey Today!

  • Eliminate ALL fear and anger from your life
  • Address any problem before it becomes too big to handle
  • Experience the joy of healthy relationships
  • Overcome any emotional pain or self destructive behaviours
  • Recover from the betrayal of infidelity or any past trauma
  • Learn how to raise happy and independent children
  • Overcome problems with teens
  • Eradicate addictions
  • Become the kind of partner capable of making a relationship work
  • Attract a partner who will be capable of really loving you
  • Reveal your true purpose and fill that nagging emptiness inside you
  • Find the freedom to enjoy EVERY aspect of your life!

Real Love is an ingredient which will allow YOU to weather any crisis, overcome any trauma and heal from any psychological pain.


Why don’t you let us show you how?

Call us: 01676 534537 Email: [email protected]

A Real Love Journey enables you to find the REAL YOU and you will LOVE what you discover.

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